THE A GROUP
The airline I frequently use has three boarding groups; the A’s, B’s, and the C’s. The young man was loitering in the front of the line of the A group long before the boarding call.
I’ve been in the front of the line or the A group more than a few times. It’s reserved for the person that is the most unorganized, has a last minute emergency, or spends the most money, or all the above.I landed a seat right by the gateway that gave me an up-close look at the young man at the front of the A-line. You had to look closely to see him, ’cause he was wearing all sorts of distractions.
He had a dark, but thin, mustache and goatee on his innocent young face. He looked like he could have been a relative of Johnny Depp… but he didn’t dress like it.
The man’s mud-colored boots were the cowboy kind. Not the sharp-toed stab-the-stirrup kind of boot. They were the “Roper” kind of shoe wear that let everybody know that he was country.
His jeans were faded but without holes. The legs crinkled around the boots and hung halfway down the wooden two-inch heels. You couldn’t seem much of his button up shirt that was hidden by his midnight blue zip-up jacket covering it.
The jacket had patches all over it, but the biggest and most prominent ones were the famous logo for NASCAR on both sides of the zipper, about chest high. The young man’s bandana worn like a tight scarf matched the color of his NASCAR jacket, a few brown locks peeked out from underneath in the back.
His cowboy hat was white, or it used to be. It was more of a cream color with hints of yellow from the sweat. It was a real cowboy hat, not the ten-gallon type, but the kind with the front and back brim curled down to protect the neck and face from the sun.
I notice characters. But too often I prematurely judge them.
There are plenty of places in the world where the young man probably wouldn’t stand out in the crowd – like a NASCAR race.
It’s a fallen human nature that begins to judge without thinking. That’s when we have a lapse in wisdom.
When they called the A boarding group the kid just stood in the way. By the time they got to my group I had to step around the kid. I didn’t say anything, but I was perturbed. I was in my seat by the time the kid and his C group boarded.
Nothing worse than a middle-aged person who’s been shown mercy and grace not using it on others.
Before I felt bad for the kid I felt bad about myself. Who is a dude with hair too long, that wears T-shirts with either workout or beach logos, to point an invisible finger?
Regret and repentance followed. “The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.” Being in the A group that really counts is a matter of grace.
Cheryl
Sunday, November 19, 2017 @ 10:19 pm
I don’t know why it is, but sometimes the people who remind me in some way of my own self can draw out the harshest judgment from me. I, too often, find myself throwing the first stone, without really having all the facts, too. Your posts always make me think, brother. God bless you and your family. 🙂
bill (cycleguy)
Monday, November 20, 2017 @ 6:03 am
I believe you are right Floyd. It is a fallen human nature (sin) which leads us to judge first. Although I’m not country, i think I would have liked the dude. Then again, I like dudes with hair too long also. Jealousy maybe. LOL I do prefer t shirts with sports or some cycling logo on it as opposed to a button down-collared one. Tennis shoes to boots. But a whole lot less cover-judging for sure.
Dikkon
Monday, November 20, 2017 @ 7:48 am
Good line, Floyd–
Nothing worse than a middle-aged person who’s been shown mercy and grace not using it on others.
I always like your self-reflections!
Martha Orlando
Monday, November 20, 2017 @ 8:42 am
Amen, Floyd! Been there and done that too many times. Whenever I catch myself judging someone whom I don’t even know, I remind myself as quickly as I can that he or she is God’s child, too. It is the best reality check there is.
Blessings, and Happy Thanksgiving!
Hazel Moon
Monday, November 20, 2017 @ 11:37 am
Been there done that too. At my age, I am still learning about the beam in my own eye when I view the splinter in theirs. I love your description of the young man. I could see him standing there, hoping the A line would allow him in. I am so happy God invites us all to come in to the A line and get a good seat right next to Him.
Pam
Tuesday, November 21, 2017 @ 5:14 am
Airports are a great place to people-watch. And a great place to exercise our “non-judgmental” skills–or build them, in my case. As always, an interesting post, Floyd.
Lisa notes
Tuesday, November 21, 2017 @ 7:52 pm
Until now, I was pretty happy with myself for landing a B16 boarding pass last week. 🙂 So you’re one of those A people, huh? Yes, grace.
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your family, Floyd!
saleslady371
Monday, November 27, 2017 @ 7:46 am
Your words reveal that you belong to God. How else can we feel a supernatural magnifying glass on our insides convicting us of things that just shouldn’t be there. I bet you are not only spruced up on the outside with your famous T-shirts and workout clothes, but with a shiny free heart that loves Jesus and everybody knows it.