WISDOM WHISPERS
Life can change in a blink and priorities can catch up with us even quicker than that. Even though a good many of us strive to count our blessings one by one, we’ve been so overly favored that it’s a lot like counting sheep; we get weary and fall asleep…
Odd thing about bad news and the things we dread; we’re rarely witness to them. We find out after the fact. Maybe that’s one of those blessings that are hard to see, therefore, difficult to count.
“Lola’s not in the backyard,” my wife informed me with a tone that was laced with worry and annoyance. Our eleven-year-old Lhasa Apso has become an escape artist in the last couple of years.
It’s a rare transformation when a dog that’s scared of everything except lizards, birds, and squirrels, becomes a courageous traveler. The same dog that loathed her leash and often needed to be carried on walks suddenly yearned to see the world, and the big one beyond our private cul de sac.
“I’m not going for her this time,” my wife added.
The last time the Houdini dog disappeared was when my sister was staying at our house watching Lola and Larry. My sister broke the news of Lola’s escape. She was horrified but was relieved to find Lola attempting to break back into the backyard via the gate on the east side of our house.
That’s where I started my search for the disobedient dog that has been brought back to our house by a couple of neighbors, my wife, the kids, and yours truly and most all of us more than once or twice.
I didn’t call for her. That’s what I normally do, and with a tone of anger in my voice. That tends to make her tuck her tail and book it back home. I also usually start in the cul de sac in my search when Lola is on the loose.
One of the neighbor kids was leaving for school or work as I gazed west into the cul de sac hoping to see the familiar grey hairball… nothing. I jogged out to the street to beat the automatic gates. I slowed to a walk after I knew I’d have enough clearance to beat the closing gates.
Strange… even now I don’t recall coming back in the gates; using the dial pad for re-entry.
It’s about fifty feet from our gates to 56st, one of the busier main streets in the northeast valley.
I’d made it about thirty feet from the gate, cars blazing by around fifty miles an hour. I saw them serve.
Then I saw Lola…
She’d been hit and died instantly.
Even knowing the laws of averages, it was the last thing I suspected. Consciously anyway…
As heartbreaking as it is to lose my little friend that I cleaned up after, the one who punched me with both paws to let me know it was dinner time, was even worse seeing the hearts of my wife and girls melt through their eyes.
It’s a fallen world and one we tend to take the good days for granted in, even knowing a tough one could come with the next sunrise… or blink.
What I am certain of is this; our Father has purpose for all things in life and uses all things for His will and purpose. Our job is to seek those things. And despite the sadness in a day when we seek His will and purpose…
… wisdom whispers.
Renee Millward
Saturday, July 18, 2015 @ 6:21 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. Pets are truly a part of the family and I know Lola will be greatly missed. Hugs to all.
Betty Draper
Saturday, July 18, 2015 @ 6:40 pm
So sorry about the loss our your pet. Good job brother relaying to us that stop by the story of Lola.
Hazel Moon
Saturday, July 18, 2015 @ 6:49 pm
I am so sorry about Lola, and her final escape reroute to dog heaven. Robert and I understand the pain in finding a runaway dog(or cat) who was fatally struck by a car. Sending you condolences and give Larry a good scratch behind his ears. He will need some extra attention for the next few weeks. Thank you for sharing your heart with us here.
Lynn D. Morrissey
Saturday, July 18, 2015 @ 7:37 pm
Oh Floyd, I can’t tell you how sorry I am. This is not the ending that I expected to read. It really isn’t. I just knew this had a different ending. I’m so very sorry. Pets, I believer, are God”s wonderful gifts to us….in some way a picture of how he loves us unconditionally (if I may be so bold as to make that comparison). They just love us, love to be our companions, just give and give and give. You already know what I feel about dogs, having read my book. I understand this sadness. I never had ever thought I would have become so sad about a pet. But losing our was a tangible loss. And it’s given me empathy. Lola is a beautiful little dog. And somehow, I really do believe you will see her again. I can’t prove that, but I do know how tenderly God loves us….even through the gift of a pet. Please tell Diane and your girls I am so sorry.
Love
Lynn
diane
Saturday, July 18, 2015 @ 8:36 pm
I am so sorry to hear this Floyd and know the feeling all to well. I would imagine your all so heartbroken:( . My thoughts are with you……
Cheryl Smith
Saturday, July 18, 2015 @ 9:10 pm
Oh, Floyd! I am SO sorry. This is so terribly sad. Her little face! She was just adorable. I can only imagine how much this hurts you and your family. We have lost precious pets, and it is just so hard to get through. I trust the dear Lord will comfort all of your hearts. You will be in my prayers.
Crazy Jackie
Saturday, July 18, 2015 @ 10:35 pm
I’m so sorry that this has happened, but so happy to read your awesome blog Floydd. Being the owner of 4….yes, 4 dogs…(I walk them all every morning here in Munds Park and people ask…”are you a dog walker”….um yes I am to all my OWN dogs”. ) I have a heart for what special little family members they become in our lives. I am sorry for the loss, but grateful that God gives us these little friends that are nothing but pure unconditional lovers. They don’t care if we look like crap, smell like crap , etc. they just love us and get excited to see us even if we leave for 10 minutes. Perhaps we need to treat all our family members like this…… much love an blessings to all of you!!
Pam Galati
Sunday, July 19, 2015 @ 3:43 am
So sorry Floyd, I have loved your dogs every time we visit. Tears
Betty Jo
Sunday, July 19, 2015 @ 4:40 am
Oh gosh, Floyd. I’m so sorry for you and your families loss of little Lola. So, so, so true: “What I am certain of is this; our Father has purpose for all things in life and uses all things for His will and purpose.” He truly does, as hard as it seems sometimes, we can rest in those words.
Ramona Brown
Sunday, July 19, 2015 @ 5:41 am
I’m so sorry for your loss Floyd, and extend my condolences to your wife and children as well. The unconditional love of our animals is unparalleled and when we lose them, it casts a pall of sadness over our hearts that remains with us for quite some time. Steve is always telling me “NO MORE ANIMALS!!! bcuz for a big guy, he has the heart of marshmallow and has a harder time dealing with them going, but there always seems to be another sent to us from God to bring more joy and love our way in a world that sorely needs it…peace, my friend.
Lisa notes
Sunday, July 19, 2015 @ 7:13 am
Oh, I was hoping the story wouldn’t end this way. π But yes, this is the world we live in. Listening to those wisdom whispers too. Sorry about Lola. π
Bill (cycleguy)
Sunday, July 19, 2015 @ 1:21 pm
One of my other readers just wrote about losing her pet Doberman after a lot of years. I reckon the only way not to feel that loss is never to love at all. People or animals. It is never easy.
Brenda
Sunday, July 19, 2015 @ 3:24 pm
Hello, my friend. I am so sorry to hear about Lola. We’ve lost a couple of cats before Brian was even born. They were part of a liter of 5 one of them was hit by a car. Robert and I had come home from the restaurant and there was Prince on our front porch. At least someone had the decency to leave him there instead of the street. I am sorry. Give Larry lots of attention. He’ll need it. He’s lost his friend to.
Nancy Kehr
Sunday, July 19, 2015 @ 10:24 pm
Hey Floyd . . .
Loss is loss…..Our world is broken…..our own hearts imperfect at keeping the record of blessing straight. Our neighbor just buried his wife – 59 – and now his son is on the same downward slide ( same disease). We’ve buried three pets of late and none of this is ever any fun. Amidst the tears and thoughts, we quiet our souls during these times and are still… God always tells me this, “I will make everything right in the end”. I hear what He says and I believe him. Wisdom does speak.
Sharon
Monday, July 20, 2015 @ 1:17 pm
Floyd, I think you know how I feel about dogs, and so you’ll understand that my heart just bleeds right alongside you and your family. Oh, poor Lola. Maybe she knew that her time was coming, and she just decided to grab her last moments with gusto?
Loss is painful. Oh so painful. And for me, it particularly hurts when it involves God’s creatures. For, after all, they did nothing to deserve the curse of death. It is the presence of sin that causes all the groaning and waiting.
I have no Scriptural proof, but I believe that we will see these precious creatures that have blessed our lives again. I love this quote from Billy Graham:
“God will prepare everything for our perfect happiness in heaven, and if it takes my dog being there, I believe he’ll be there.”
God is so very good, and He loves us. I think the future holds more joy than we can possibly imagine now. Maybe that is the essence of those “whispers of wisdom” that you speak of.
Big hugs for you, your wife, and kids…and Larry, too.
GOD BLESS…and He does, even when life hurts.
saleslady371
Monday, July 20, 2015 @ 1:35 pm
I gasped when I read the ending. What a sad story. I can imagine the loss you and your family is feeling. Such a cute dog. I am so sorry. Yes, wisdom whispers.
Brad
Monday, July 20, 2015 @ 1:59 pm
I somehow felt as I was reading it was going to end this way. I’m at a loss for words, which seldom happens to me. I love all of your family and I know how difficult this is for all of you. I’m so sorry. God bless all of you.
David Rupert
Monday, July 20, 2015 @ 7:48 pm
Poor little pup. We get attached to these little beasts. Peace to your family
Hazel Moon
Monday, July 20, 2015 @ 10:12 pm
So sorry about Lola. Thank you for sharing your heart felt post with us here at βTell Me a Story.β http://letmetelluastory.blogspot.com/
June
Tuesday, July 21, 2015 @ 10:43 am
I’m so sorry, Floyd. We’ve all lost a few “best friends”, it doesn’t get any easier. Prayers of comfort for you and your family.
Lux
Wednesday, July 22, 2015 @ 2:02 am
My heart breaks. I can’t imagine our babies going through the same. I’m so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort despite everything.
Kim Adams Morgan
Wednesday, July 22, 2015 @ 10:03 am
oh, Floyd, as I sit here looking at the tube, just recently received that holds the remains from our beloved Maddie, lost from cancer last month, I know how much this hurts. Bill (above) is right, the only alternative to not feeling the hurt is not having a pet to love at all, and that just isn’t an option for us. The joy and love, the lessons taught to young people – they are priceless. Praying for healing hearts for your family.
We head back to NC this weekend for business and will be scattering her ashes under her favorite trees at our mountain home. π It will be nice closure for us.
Dolly@Soulstops
Wednesday, July 22, 2015 @ 2:26 pm
oh, Floyd, I am so sorry to hear about Lola…so hard…praying God comforts you and your family as you grieve…((hugs))
Joanne Norton
Wednesday, July 22, 2015 @ 4:11 pm
Sorry you lost your dear friend. Even though dogs, cats, rabbits, squirrels, and birds… among other things… have suddenly died in our area and our world, I sometimes think that somehow they are also in heaven. MAYBE I’m completely wrong, but sometimes I think I’ll see my favorite dogs who protected me from parts of the seriousness of my family situation. So, that’s what I’ll find out in the not-distant-future. Want to see my babies, my dogs, my cats, and lots and lots of birds. But NO snakes and bugs!!! π Thanks for sharing.
Jason Stasyszen
Thursday, July 23, 2015 @ 9:07 am
I’m always amazed how deeply we can love these furry friends. There have been ones I didn’t think I even cared for and then when they died, I was overwhelmed with emotion. So sorry for you and your family, Floyd. Counting my blessings with you…
Jennifer Dougan
Wednesday, July 29, 2015 @ 10:05 am
I’m so sorry about Lola, Floyd. That’s hard…
Jennifer Dougan
http://www.jenniferdougan.com
Ed
Thursday, August 20, 2015 @ 12:47 am
Our pets are so amazing, adorable, and a very strong part of our lives. So sorry for your loss.