THE LADY AND FIDO
The picture made me a little angry, then a tad sick; finally I got around to deeply saddened. The picture shouldn’t have surprised me, but it did. After all, I know human nature, I have a smidge of wisdom given to be by my Father. There they sat in the photo, making themselves as comfortable as possible in the chairs against the back wall of the office as they waited for their turn.
There were three or four people working on the other side of the glass serving the three or four people on the lobby side who were actually physically standing in line. The rest of the folks waiting were plopped into the chairs with their shoes, sandals, flip flops or tennis shoes, keeping their place in line for them – a line of empty shoes…
They say a picture is worth a thousand words, I think sometimes more. The office was the welfare kind and the people who had their shoes mark their place in line were the recipients waiting their turn. I know there are legitimate reasons for people needing help, but I noted none of the people in the picture were handicapped, just too tired or lazy to stand and wait to be waited on. I mean, why would you when you can have your shoes do the job for you?
Later on that seventy-five-degree day as I was pulling off my street onto the main street I spotted her. With no one behind me I pulled short of the intersection to observe her from a distance. She was walking her dog – a big Rottweiler, no easy task for the lady who’d obviously been bound to her wheelchair for a long time.
The wheelchair-bound lady was pushing her big wheels in hard and furious downward motions to propel her about every five to ten seconds apart before resting to coast while the overgrown Rotty trotted beside her. I couldn’t hear her, but I could see her pointing forward and the big headed dog studied her with ears perked.
A few second later she did it again. This time the muscle-bound dog started to take over – he lunged forward with strong strides and before too many of them the lady in the wheelchair was sailing as she white knuckle gripped the heavy leash.
As I pulled out into traffic I glanced over to see the lady and Fido having a beautiful day, her thin hair laughing in the breeze… I thought about the people I’d seen earlier that day in the picture of them sitting inside the welfare office. I mumbled to myself inaudibly, “I’ll bet if that lady in the wheelchair had to be in that line, she’d rather do it standing.”
I thank God literally I don’t have to stand or sit in the welfare line… but aren’t we all a little like the people in the picture? Don’t we all take more for granted than we should? Aren’t all of us a little lazy now and then?
It could be that maybe those of us who were treated a little harder and given less, are really the blessed ones? Brings a whole new perspective to the adage, “less is more.” I think most often the harder road provides more gratification. I think the Lady and Fido have that figured out.
bill (cycleguy)
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 5:04 am
Great story Floyd! I have to admit my fires burn inside a little when i consider the entitlement society we have become. ‘Nuff said. Love the word picture I got from this. I can only imagine the sheer joy mixed with Uh-oh on that lady’s face as her Rot takes her for a walk. Oh, I agree also. There are times I am lazy, but hopefully never to the point of expecting others to do my bidding cuz “I deserve it.”
Floyd
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 10:38 am
We’re completely on the same page, Bill. Many of us take so much for granted. It’s great to be able to run and ride a bike, huh? Thanks, Bill.
Jason Stasyszen
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 9:21 am
I saw a news report and in the state in which I am now living (as well as the one I came from and several others), you can make more money by being on welfare than holding a minimum wage job. They interviewed a fast food restaurant manager who testified that she couldn’t keep people working because they know they can make more sitting at home. How sad is that? We’re stealing purpose and a sense of accomplishment from people and it’s not making their lives better or getting them to a better place. Like you said, there are people who need legitimate help, but we seem to have created something all together different in our system. I’m very thankful for God’s gracious gifts in the simplest and the more complex ways. To whom much is given, much is required. Thanks Floyd.
Floyd
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 10:44 am
Very well said, Jason. You nailed it. We tend to forget, even as Christians, that Adam was to work the Garden even before the fall. It was his gift to be able to be productive, the sweat and thorns came later. Love that verse, Jason. Thanks, brother.
Hutch
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 10:29 am
It’s so different today. How do you teach your kids the value of work and earning your own way when they see others gaming the system?
Floyd
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 10:47 am
That’s not an abundant life that God calls us to. “Tis better to give than to receive.” I think we just have to remind our kids of that and hold them to higher standards, to be a part of the world that gives, not takes, and to remind them that the sweetest gifts we get materialistically are the ones that our Father has designed for us to earn. It is different indeed… and not for the better. Thanks, Hutch.
Audra Krell
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 5:36 pm
As I pursue my new career, I can barely take care of the entitled people of America. Serving the under served is the joy of my life, they are the most grateful people I’ve ever encountered. The best part is, that they don’t raise us up on a pedestal. They would be sad if we didn’t come to be sure, but they go on with their happy lives whether we show up or not.
Floyd
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 6:53 am
There is joy in being grateful and I think you’re perfectly made to be the hands and heart of our Father. Good for you for following the passion He placed within you. Thanks, Audra.
Barb Raveling
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 6:12 pm
Wow, point well made. Too bad we don’t always appreciate what we have until we lose it. A thankful, joyful heart is a gift, but I fear that entitlement is robbing us from focusing on being grateful and receiving that gift. Hopefully, the tide will change because entitlement is pretty pervasive in our country.
Floyd
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 6:55 am
It is consuming most of us, I don’t know too many of us that aren’t affected by the ugly trait. It is a fight I pray that we get a grasp on before things change like they did for the Israelites. I agree with you on the attitude of being grateful, it is the root of true joy. With you on all counts, Barb. Thanks.
Hazel Moon
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 6:38 pm
This world is not my home, I’m just a passing through, my treasures are laid up somewhere beyond the blue! We often wonder what this WORLD is coming to? But I loved the written picture of the dog pulling the lady in the wheel chair. I hope she has an extra bottle of water for her dog.
Floyd
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 6:57 am
Well said, Hazel! The things people hold dear down here don’t count for anything. True treasure is within us through Him and the actions on His behalf that speak to His power and our legacy. Keep building yours, sister! And thanks, Hazel.
Mia
Wednesday, September 4, 2013 @ 11:41 pm
Dear Floyd
Your post reminds me of what my youngest brother told me a few weeks ago. He has been living in Houston for five years and just moved back to South Africa. He told us about a conversation he had with someone. This unemployed person did not want to accept a job that paid lower wages than what he received from welfare. A guy told us here in SA that he once offered a beggar that begged at the traffick lights in PE, a job at R200 a day (about 1600 dollars). He politely refused for apparently he made about R600 a day begging at the street corner. Now, to put this in perspective; R200 is about double what manual laborers earn per day in my country. Floyd, I will email a bit of my history not later than tomorrow.
Much love XX
Mia
Floyd
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 7:00 am
Those kind of stories drive me crazy! Human nature… People will line up for a handout before work that brings true gratification. That is existing, not living! Money means little if we have nothing to show for our contribution to society. Thanks for sharing the story, sad but true. Thanks, Mia.
Mary mcLeary
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 6:03 am
The image of the woman and her dog will stick with me as an example of an overcomer. Yes, there are those who play the system and then there are those who take the lemons in life and make lemonade. Thanks for the great post.
Floyd
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 7:01 am
Amen. I so respect the ones that make the lemonade… I can always learn something from them. God loves and “overcomer.” I like that, thanks, Mary.
Lisa Galati
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 6:04 am
Floyd!
I really liked this. Thank you for the reminder to “push” myself in all that I do and not necessarily a “gentle” push. Hope all is great your way. Just visited the city of Floyd, Georgia. Your name was everywhere!!
Love, Lisa
Floyd
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 7:03 am
I know you push yourself hard and hold yourself to high standards, Lisa. I respect that, but then you already know that! With a name of a city like that, how can it help but be a good one? It’s great to hear from you, thanks, Lisa. Love you too, tell Denny I said hi!
Dave Arnold
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 7:39 am
Powerful story, Floyd. I spent many a days at the welfare office in Chicago when I worked with refugees at World Relief. I would often tell my wife it’s a picture of humanity: broken, lonely people in need of hope. This post brought me back.
Floyd
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 4:28 pm
We’re all in need of the hope of our Father, some people just don’t know it… You have quite a heart for all of God’s children, Dave. Thanks for following the heart of God.
Lynn Morrissey
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 12:21 pm
Floyd, I loved the image of that lady and dog!! Wow, talk about tenacity! Great image and great spirit. I am so unbearably sad for my brother, who due to mental incapacities and illness beyond his control, is seeking aid. We are all trying to help him as much as we can, but we will need more to help him in the way that he truly needs. He honestly is trying, but unless he gets help, he will never get well. Perhaps this offers another side of the coin of life. =]
So appreciate your insights, alwasy!
Love
Lynn
Floyd
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 4:35 pm
People need help, and that’s the design of the system. Unfortunately many of the people that are in the system that don’t belong there are really taking from the ones that truly need it. It always seems to be the simplest things in life that end up meaning the most… Thanks, Lynn. I’m praying for your brother.
Ngina Otiende
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 3:11 pm
I agree with you Floyd – the harder road provides more gratification. I think we grow a whole lot more, see life from a different perspective, learn to appreciate small things and be continent.
Personally i don’t always appreciate the thin places, I’s rather have the benefits of hard times without having to go thought the hard times!
Thank God for His grace, that not only calls us to a much narrower road but also enables us to live and not die, through it all đŸ™‚
Floyd
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 4:37 pm
I’m with you, Ngina! I don’t mind the benefits from the tough times, it’s just the tough times that I try to avoid like the plague! His grace is sufficient.. we always come back to that wisdom… that we learned the hard way. Thanks for sharing and the smile!
Betty Draper
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 6:45 pm
Great story brother with great truths. I don’t even like to feel lazy let alone act on it. Bill wrote on waiting, patience…I don’t have patience on those who will not work. When things come easy I worry since most things come with a price tag. We have had some tough times in our day…never been sorry we learned to work early in our life. As always you caught us up again in your story.
Floyd
Friday, September 6, 2013 @ 10:32 am
Very well said, Betty. The best things in life are the things we were taught, not given. Funny how the sweetest things come with the biggest sacrifice. How sweet the memories of your mission field must taste. What a gift from our Father. Thanks, Betty.
Dolly@Soulstops
Thursday, September 5, 2013 @ 10:16 pm
Floyd,
I love the image of that woman and her dog pulling her along…what perseverance and joy đŸ™‚ Thank you…Happy Friday early đŸ™‚
Floyd
Friday, September 6, 2013 @ 10:34 am
It was really quite a polar opposite of what I’d just seen in a picture. To see that lady who was probably in her late fifties living life to the fullest was a real eye opener. We forget to enjoy the journey, the work, the play, all are a gift from God. Thanks, Dolly, and happy Friday to you too, sister!
Caleb Suko
Friday, September 6, 2013 @ 12:04 am
What a great picture you painted of this lady flying down the road in her wheelchair being towed by her dog! Yes, it is frustrating when we see people who could be productive yet have chosen to sit and let other serve them. I think work is a godly thing and really and act of worship if done for God.
Floyd
Friday, September 6, 2013 @ 10:41 am
I couldn’t agree more, Caleb. Some work is more honorable than other work, and usually significantly harder. Thanks for taking up the call to serve our Father in a foreign country. An act of worship indeed! Thanks, Caleb.
Dan Erickson
Friday, September 6, 2013 @ 6:14 am
I love the way you wrapped this one up Floyd. It would be so easy to end in a judgmental way, but you made sure to point out that we’re all messed up to a point. Good job, Floyd.
Floyd
Friday, September 6, 2013 @ 10:43 am
Amen, Dan. We are all messed up to a point for sure. I have to remind myself the constantly and part of how I do that is to remember the title of this site… It’s all about God’s grace. Thanks, Dan.
Dan Erickson
Friday, September 6, 2013 @ 11:07 am
I love Grace. The pastor of the church I attend pays special attention to Grace and God’s forgiveness each week. It’s my favorite part of the service.
Floyd
Friday, September 6, 2013 @ 5:55 pm
Sounds like a great church home! Good for you, Dan. You know a thing or two about forgiveness!
André de Vries
Saturday, September 7, 2013 @ 10:31 am
Hi Floyd
Mia’s husband here. Just a little correction. ZAR200 is worth about USD20! Fibrofog messed up the calculations!
Blessings
Floyd
Saturday, September 7, 2013 @ 11:39 am
Oh, thanks for pointing that out, Andre. We all stumble through a little fog every now and then! Have fun on the picture hunt! And thanks for help, brother!
Rachael
Saturday, September 7, 2013 @ 11:57 am
This message permeates so much of life. It is the hard work through the tribulations, fighting for freedom in Christ, and battling with enemies of our mind that bring the blessings and the fullness of life. Just as our labor in this world brings gratification to our existence and purpose to our days. I think complete satisfaction is when both perspectives go hand in hand, you can’t have one without the other. It is those slumbering spirits in our midst that miss the true joy of living. Hmmm, makes me reflect on what our purpose is here on earth in reaching those souls.
Floyd
Saturday, September 7, 2013 @ 12:19 pm
Nicely said. It really is the struggle in both realms that brings about gratification and honor. The words of Paul pop into my head thinking about the ones not willing to help out, provided they can. I like your perspective, if we are missing one in either realm, we’re gonna be missing the boat all together. Thanks for sharing that perspective, Rachael. You have me thinking!
Dan Black
Saturday, September 7, 2013 @ 12:33 pm
Great reminder. I’ve learned to be thankful and grateful with what I have because it could be worse. People die everyday due to not having food or water and I’m blessed to be able to eat and drink whenever I want.
Floyd
Saturday, September 7, 2013 @ 1:00 pm
A very wise observation, Dan. We all have so much to be thankful for, including the work to be able to provide for our loved ones. In the end it is the little things that we take for granted that mean the most. Thanks, Dan.
Dan Black
Saturday, September 7, 2013 @ 1:02 pm
Thank you Floyd:) I always enjoy reading your posts.
Floyd
Sunday, September 8, 2013 @ 8:30 am
You’re welcome and thank you, Dan.
Bernard
Sunday, September 8, 2013 @ 5:52 pm
Great post. I appreciate the words of wisdom in your posts. I was discussing with a friend a few weeks ago about the entitlements people think they deserve. I have witnessed able body people not attempt to find work because they settled for a check. I will stop now because I get upset when I see people constantly abusing the system and not realize that they are a slave to the system.
Floyd
Sunday, September 8, 2013 @ 6:12 pm
Oh man, you nailed that, Bernard. I love the way you put that, that is exactly what it does! It turns people with great potential into slaves to the system. I know you’re doing your part to encourage and motivate all the people in your world. May we all point to the Truth and the freedom in and through Him in all aspects of our lives. Great point, Bernard. Thank you, sir!
Joanne Norton
Tuesday, September 10, 2013 @ 5:32 pm
When I was in Redwood City in early ’70, shortly after my daughter was born, we were too poor to actually feed her. SO had to go to welfare. It had happened with my parents, too, when Dad was out of work for too long when I was a high school senior in ’63. I know WAY too much… both connected to good and evil … with the welfare organization/location workers and the people who are being honest or cheating while entering in. Have seen much in many ways, many times. [Haven’t needed to be there for myself for more than 30 years, but have seen much since then, connected to people on my plate here.] ANYHOW, what you said about it, about the present-day world, about how we should be not taking the world and our Lord for granted and not being lazy. Focusing on Him is what counts. Helping others is what counts. Doing whatever we’re called to do whenever… and if it means we’re letting a “dog” pull us around and about and keep us moving forward, that counts, too.
Maybe I didn’t make sense this time, but tried. Ya dun good.
Floyd
Thursday, September 12, 2013 @ 6:12 pm
You always make perfect sense and bring a smile to my face, sister. You have lived a full life and speak and write with the authority that you’ve earned… the hard way. Love your perspective and heart, Joanne. Thanks!
SimplyDarlene
Saturday, September 14, 2013 @ 8:58 am
Your last two sentences sum it up very good.
Personally, I like sweat and toil and dirt and achy muscles too much not to work…
Blessings.
Floyd
Saturday, September 14, 2013 @ 12:38 pm
Yep, just means that much more gratification! I respect the attitude and perspective. Thanks, Darlene.
tcavey
Monday, September 16, 2013 @ 12:44 pm
Far too often we all take things for granted. It’s human nature…however, a feeling of entitlement can make one unable to enjoy the small blessings in life and miss out on the joy of working hard to earn something.
Floyd
Monday, September 16, 2013 @ 2:21 pm
Couldn’t agree more, TC. The gratification is the gift that those people miss. I know you know that gift all too well! Thanks, TC.
Loren Pinilis
Friday, September 20, 2013 @ 9:31 am
Whenever I read a post like this, it makes me think about how I’m raising my children. I don’t really know why. I hope to instill in them a sense of work ethic and gratitude.
Floyd
Friday, September 20, 2013 @ 6:12 pm
Loren, I know for sure you’re doing just that, brother. It matters to you and it will to them. Thanks, Loren.