THE BEGINNING OF FAITH
It was a different world then… There’s a good chance someone would have called Child Protective Services if my dad would have done something like that today. Sure it was dangerous, but life is a dangerous place and being prepared for a less than perfect world is much better than living in fear of it. At least that’s the way my dad looked at it.
It wasn’t punishment, it was a treat to get to go to work with my dad. We knew he’d only take one of us with him to work if we were physically capable of being with him, even if it meant doing something what people in the world now would consider dangerous.
I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t scared, I remember being terrified. I also remember having the confidence to do it because I trusted my dad’s judgment regarding me.
My dad propped the extension ladder on the side of the building and pushed the top part of the ladder up the side of the old block building by pulling down on the rope tied to the top part of the ladder, and pushed the top part of the ladder up the side of the old block building. “Clink-clink-clink-clink-clink-clink-clink-clink”! I listened as the ladder raised higher and higher, locking each step into place behind it.
My dad settled it firmly and squarely in place, I can’t remember if it was dirt or pavement, but I remember him stomping his big ole’ work boot on the first rung of the ladder with authority. “Danny you first”! He said to his partner.
Up the ladder, Danny scuttled like a cat. I stood glaring up into the bright desert sky with my arm bent, the palm of my hand and soft skin of my forearm blocking the sun as Danny flung his leg over the side of the building and secured the top of the ladder with both hands, “OK”! – “I got it”! he yelled down to my dad.
“OK Amigo”! (my dad’s affectionate nickname for me at the time), “Your turn”! As I stepped slowly toward the ladder he gave me last instructions, “Don’t take a step up the ladder until you have both hands on the sides”! – “OK”? … “OK,” I said softly.
I knew this was a rite of passage, even if it was only a small one at the age of 7 or 8. My dad had his left hand on the side of the ladder as I stepped toward it. I looked in his eyes as I started to step toward the first rung. Although I didn’t say another word, he knew me and my thoughts. “I gotcha’ son”… He said in earnest. I knew he meant it with his life.
Up I climbed… After a couple of rungs, I slowly got the feel and up the ladder I went, trying to imitate Danny. My dad and the friend he worked with laughed and joked about my bravery and abilities the rest of the day. As a kid, I didn’t know at the time that while proud, they knew overcoming fear was something to be encouraged.
That generation knew hard times.They lived through hard times with smiles on their faces, the didn’t hide and seek refuge from the world. The majority of the people from that generation, and I write as an eyewitness, never ducked or fainted in fear. My dad looked it in the eyes and stepped toward it. Fear flees… I saw it many times.
The fear of this world runs and cowers when it sees the spirit of God, as it peers into the eyes where God residing in their soul.
I got some good things from my parents as a kid. While we may not have gotten as much in material ways as others, what they gave us we would come to realize is more precious than all the gold the world has to offer.
Knowing God and witnessing in person the blessings of God, bestowed upon His children of faith, is one gift I could never repay.
I also cherish the seemingly smaller ones…
Like my dad saying, “I gotcha’ son…”
The beginning of faith.
bill (cycleguy)
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 3:04 am
Great story floyd. Love the application. Love the fact that your dad had your back (and front and everywhere else). He taught you some very valuable lessons that day.
Floyd
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 7:01 am
Thanks Bill. My heart really goes out to the people who don’t have the advantage of a sound childhood. Then again, God knows the ones who might need it the most?
April
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 8:28 am
My dad tried to help me get over my fears once by telling me a roller coaster wasn’t as fast and bad as I had imagined…he lied! 🙂 It didn’t work so well for me, to this day I HATE roller coasters. LOL
Great story as always!
Floyd
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 10:04 am
Thanks April. Yeah, dads can be that way. Our perceptions of things aren’t always the norm that’s for sure!
Amy Nabors
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 9:08 am
What a wonderful story to remind us of what faith really is all about.
Floyd
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 10:05 am
Thanks Amy. Yeah, we can learn a lot from our kids and remembering our childhood. “The faith of a child.”
Lisa notes
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 2:54 pm
I love this story, Floyd. The seeds of faith planted on a ladder. Yep, that generation was definitely a tough one. My dad was the same way. Yet they taught us so much in their own way. I wouldn’t trade those lessons for anything.
Floyd
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 4:05 pm
Thanks Lisa. Yeah, that generation had a way to teach things in a very real world practical way. I wouldn’t trade mine either. What a blessing God gave us through our parents.
Hazel
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 6:33 pm
Great story and such a bonding experience. I bet that 7 or 8 year old boy felt more like a “MAN” when he could go with Dad to work. Yes, fear has torments, and by knowing you could trust Dad, it helped you overcome. God is that way too — always watching our back!
Floyd
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 10:10 pm
Thanks Hazel. That pretty much sums it up. God used the life and hand of my dad to guide me to Him. There is no other being we could desire to watch our back than our Father in heaven.
Kris
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 7:42 pm
Great story. Miss seeing you. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas.
Floyd
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 10:14 pm
Thank you Kris! I too miss seeing you. What a blessing we take for granted; the time spent with special people. I’ll look forward to seeing you again. Merry Christmas to you and yours. God bless!
Lenna Wyatt
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 8:27 pm
I wasn’t taught faith by my parents, although my father was the type who could convey what I should know mostly by his example. But I was thinking about the huge difference in today’s world when it comes to someone accidently hurting themselves. Today, if you had fallen off the ladder in spite of your father being there to protect you, the government would probably ban ladders! And then charge your father with something.
Floyd
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 10:18 pm
Ain’t that the truth! I can say with certainty and wisdom, without a doubt, my dad would have caught me and protected my neck or back, but then isn’t that what faith is about? What an honor to have you pay me a visit during this season… Thank you my friend… Words can’t express my appreciation for you and your wisdom.
Voni Harris
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 10:34 pm
Lessons learned in childhood… Nothing like ’em. Thanks for sharing.
Floyd
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 6:52 am
So true, thanks Voni!
Nancy
Monday, December 19, 2011 @ 11:34 pm
Although I didn’t have what most would call a “normal” childhood, I learned from my Father God! I had to go to HIM because I needed to know what He thought about me and how to act in faith. I loved that your father guided you along as he did. Praise God for a wonderful father! Thanks for sharing this heart-warming story! No wonder you are so pensive and driven to share!
Floyd
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 6:57 am
I mentioned earlier that I sometimes think about the people who didn’t have it as good as others. The ones who have a tougher time are probably the strong ones. It could well be that the ones who had it easier are the weaker ones that God has to protect a little more. The path God led you from is perfect in that it brought you to Him and now your wisdom to us. Thanks Nancy. God bless you and yours.
Jason Stasyszen
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 1:45 pm
What an amazing takeaway. Your dad believed in you and that gave you the confidence to proceed through the fear (along with knowing he was there to catch/steady you). We really have no reason not to trust our God. He is the perfect heavenly Father. He calls us to things because He knows who He made us to be and He walks right with us to the ultimate fulfillment. Thanks Floyd. So good.
Floyd
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 5:19 pm
Thanks Jason, you summed that up quite well. I appreciate the input, it really helps drive things home, deeper to where it needs to be.
Lanny Wegleitner
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 2:06 pm
I am sure OSHA would have alot to say about a 7 or 8 year old climbing a latter at a job site with his dad by today’s standards. That is why we old farts call it “the good old days”. I can remember not that long ago when almost all public pools had high dives. There are so many things we survived that are now considered illegal for our own safety and protection. Great story.
Floyd
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 5:22 pm
Your right Lanny, don’t even get me started. I’m thankful for the times we had in our youth. Although there are more than a few things you and I are blessed to be able to talk about. We were the epitome of “dumb kids.” I know I won’t get an argument out of you!
Chuck Allen
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 4:00 pm
We hear “I gotcha’” from time to time throughout our life, but it never carries the same weight as when dad says it, does it? Great story, Floyd!
Floyd
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 5:23 pm
Thanks Chuck, you’re right. When a dad says it with authority, it does seem magical. It’s how we learn to become dads ourselves I think.
Danelle
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 5:06 pm
What an awesome dad! And I agree completely that kids need to face challenges in order to enter a challenging world. Definitely.
“I gotcha” are two profound words strung together to define a trust that we all need in our Father. .
Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing this Floyd.
Floyd
Tuesday, December 20, 2011 @ 5:26 pm
Thanks Danelle. That trust develops into a spiritual trust in our heavenly Father for sure. I’m sure it’s no coincidence of design and deliverance. God is amazing, we just gotta have our eyes open. A lot of unspoken wisdom in that generation.
brad
Monday, December 26, 2011 @ 9:18 am
Maybe one day, we’ll get back to that way of life. I highly doubt it though. I really can’t beleive how much we have changed in a few short years. When I say we, I mean as a whole. When we speak of things we did as young children, there is a lot of pride in our voices, yet many people today simply can’t comprehend it. It is sadly so foreign to them. thx for sharing yours stories. Without them, at times I feel as though I’m the only one who feels this way
Floyd
Monday, December 26, 2011 @ 9:41 am
Thanks for sharing the stories with me Brad. You’re not alone, I think the majority are probably more like us than not. We just need to stand up, speak up, and be strong like the generation before us taught us to be.