SMOOTH WATER
Growing up, in Lake Havasu was exciting, at least in part, well, during the summer time anyway. A big part of the typical life there revolved around the lake and those type of activities. When very young most of us were limited to the shore, the beaches.
We had pretty much innocent fun; frisbee, racing through burning hot sand, head first into the water as the depth limited the high steps and forced the dive. We jumped off cliffs, did some flips off the lower cliffs, played tag in the water, hide and seek – always ending up under the docks breathing in the open cavities of the structure, and just hanging out.
As we got older the games got more exciting, more dangerous. Many of us graduated from the innocent games into the deeper water; the boats… with big V-8’s. Ironically the years of burning the candle at both ends while on the water of life left us in search of smooth water.
Smooth water and a decent ski were the things that brought the pinnacle of living. In the midst of speed, noise, and danger, there was peace in the moment. I think that’s the story of most of our lives. We search for peace and joy in all the wrong places.
People travel the earth in search of meaning and fulfillment, similar to how we searched for it in our youth on the water. We struggle and strain to fill our lives with fun or a good time, often never understanding the difference between fun and joy.
I’m not saying fun is a bad thing, I love to have fun, to laugh, maybe even to a fault, but I’ve come to understand there is a massive difference between fun and joy. Fun happens on the outside and gives us a special feeling on the inside. Joy is just the opposite; joy happens on the inside and gives us a special feeling on the outside.
We’d get up before the summer sun in search of smooth water to ski on, other times wait until dusk to find the magical smooth water to ride across in satisfaction. It’s not so different for all of us years removed from the days of youth; we still strain and struggle to find that smooth water to ride our lives across.
We seek that fun on the outside often believing it will give us that peace and joy to endure the rough waves of life. Every so often we find a patch of smooth water, but we know it’s temporary, we all get to navigate the rough waters whether we want to or not.
It’s similar to the springing sunny mornings or the sinking setting sun evenings. The boats created choppy waters that always kept us moving away from the boat’s spreading wake, kinda like how we are the ones usually causing our own choppy waters and even storms in our lives.
It’s taken a while, but I’ve learned peace and joy can’t be calculated or determined based solely on our circumstances in life. Sometimes we have smooth water, other times it’s a storm… Our perspective will depend on the ocean of our heart. God grants peace and stills the water of our hearts. The characteristics of the water physically have no bearing on us if we seek His truth first in heart then deed.
It’s peculiar how when we have a proper perspective of the world and it’s storms, our lives seem to be filled with more days of the calming smooth water.
Searching for smooth water is like quenching out thirst; it’s always temporary and fleeting.
Finding the smooth water within is a gift from God…
And it’s eternal.
bill (cycleguy)
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 1:30 am
I think you hit on it Floyd. Joy is that inner contentment in spite of what is going on around us. While happiness is fleeting, joy is eternal. Well done my friend.
Floyd
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 6:55 am
Thanks Bill. You summed it up quite well. The world runs at warp speed trying to find what can’t fill the void that can only be satisfied from God…and from the inside out.
TC Avey
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 7:06 am
This reminds me of the fruit of the Spirit. Hard times will come, but if we are grounded in Christ the storms do not have to overwhelm us.
I used to search for contentment in the world. While I have a long way to go in growing up (wink) at least I am moving past the need for ‘fun’ all the time. Life is messy, there are good time and bad, and only Christ can keep me at peace. At the end of the day, all that matter is Christ.
Thank you for this post. Great job.
Floyd
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 9:10 am
Thanks TC. Couldn’t agree more. Our peace and joy have everything to do with our surrender to His perfect will, only then will the contentment come, not always a change of circumstances.
Jason Stasyszen
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 10:47 am
I was thinking the same as Bill. God’s heart for us goes past a fleeting happiness (because what makes us happy could also destroy us). He desires an abiding joy and contentment no matter the circumstances as we lean into a deeper relationship with Him. Good stuff!
Also, I didn’t know you lived in Lake Havasu. I have a pastor friend there. He’s actually coming to Alaska this week for a conference we’re hosting. I love to go visit him (did I mention he has a boat?). We have a lot of fun, but don’t worry, we still know what true joy is! 🙂
Floyd
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 10:54 pm
I grew up there. I don’t live there now, although the rest of my family is there, I grew up there and still have my main business office there. Let me know who your friend is, if not here, you have my email address. It’s still a pretty small city, I’m sure I’ll know who he is.
I’m afraid I’m one too many knee surgeries past skiing anymore… and to be honest I was never as good as I thought I was!
Dan Black
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 2:37 pm
Great post. Inner peace and joy not matter the circumstance is best and that only fully happens when we have Jesus within our life.
Floyd
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 10:55 pm
Amen Dan. That sums it up perfectly!
Voni
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 5:35 pm
Why do we humans insist on believing that the rough waters will never end?
Why do we humans insist on believing that the smooth waters will never end?
Blessings,
Voni
Floyd
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 10:57 pm
Good point Voni. I guess maybe it’s the fallen nature about us. Our flesh that is fallen lies to us. It’s never from without, it’s from within… and I’m as perplexed as you, even though we both know the Truth…
Hazel Moon
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 8:05 pm
Oh yes, the smooth places are nice but the storms cause us to appreciate the smooth water too.
Another great Post!
Floyd
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 10:59 pm
The smooth water is beautiful isn’t it? We begin to appreciate all the simple things once we get our priorities straight…
Audra Krell
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 8:37 pm
I remember the first time I realized I had been given the gift of joy. My circumstances were terrible, I’d made some horrible choices and yet there was this feeling deep inside. The world said I should have been hopeless, depressed and morose. God had different plans and I finally identified the feeling and now I have unspeakable joy, even in the worst of circumstances. I’m so grateful for God’s gifts.
Floyd
Monday, April 16, 2012 @ 11:01 pm
You are truly blessed indeed. God has given you the gift of wisdom, maybe beyond what most of us get on a regular basis. Either way, I’m lifted by your words and sharing. God is amazing!!!
Lisa notes
Tuesday, April 17, 2012 @ 6:23 am
You sound like my husband. He grew up on a lake (although in Alabama), and was such a fish himself. He’d love to still live on the water. We do have a small lake behind our house; I feel very blessed to get to look at the still waters every day. Now to remember to let the Lord still MY waters every day…yes, joy and peace. It’s found in him alone, not our circumstances. Thanks for another great lesson, Floyd.
Floyd
Tuesday, April 17, 2012 @ 7:04 am
Thanks Lisa, we’re all in the same boat on that lake… looking for peace and joy on the outside, always being reminded it can’t be found there.
Nancy
Tuesday, April 17, 2012 @ 10:37 am
Kudos for excellent expression! Yeah, so true and we DO blame the devil for a lot when it is US who causes much in the way of our own “choppy waters.”
We used to have a pastor who said ‘ The devil is always looking for bigger and better…always building something up …just to tear it down himself, becasue HE is NOT God and cannot create. With the devil, there will never be any peace. Therefore anything wrought in self will never totally satisfy and will be a disaster eventually.”
Perspective is certainly everything! Thank you for the gentle admonishment for all of us to heed.
Floyd
Tuesday, April 17, 2012 @ 6:46 pm
Thanks Nancy. Great point, satan is the destroyer… Only God can create and He’s wired us in His image. I need to remind myself of God’s truths on a regular basis. Glad to be able to share it with ones who genuinely care.
Amy Nabors
Friday, April 20, 2012 @ 5:55 am
We live a couple of miles from a lake here in Alabama and are blessed that my in-laws have a house on it. The smooth water almost at dusk is my favorite time on the water. Such wise words you share here.
Floyd
Friday, April 20, 2012 @ 7:07 am
Thanks Amy. The smooth water is beautiful. So should are hearts be…