MAN EATING LADYBUGS
This is a repost from September 2010. I’ve reposted it a few times, because it’s a good memory of Man Eating Ladybugs.
It’s getting close to the time when I plant winter flowers in the pots in our backyard. We all enjoy the sharp color and contrast of the Annuals, especially in a cooling Arizona air.
I can still bribe my little one to hang out with me and help with the outdoor work occasionally. A few years back I bribed her into helping again. While we were flower shopping at the local do-it-yourself-mega-store, we found at the check out line, thin bags of sheer material. Inside those bags were what looked like hundreds of ladybugs. I wondered out loud, “Ladybugs in a bag? What’ll they think of next?”
“Can we get some Dad?” my little one asked.
“Sure, I’m all for them eating whatever it is that’s eating our flowers and shrubs,” I answered. We bought two for good measure.
When we got home the first thing my daughter wanted to do was to release the ladybugs. No chance. My help and company would have been long gone. First things first. We pulled the old dead flowers from all the pots, then we added water and remixed the mulch as needed.
We quickly developed a system, she handed me the little cubed roots of flowers and I’d secure them into their new more permanent homes. Hours and much work later, it was time to unleash our temporarily jailed aphid eaters.
We weren’t quite sure how to go about releasing them. I opened up the first bag and held it out in front of me… Nothing. These must have been the lazy ladybugs who were easy to catch. I shook the bag a little… Still nothing.
I reached my hand into the bag to gently grab some of the ladybugs and release them into the wonderland they had been born for. As I was reaching in the bag, I stopped, looked wild-eyed at my daughter in terror and yelled, “AAAAHHHHH!!!— THEY’RE EATING MY FLESH!!!—OH NO!!—THEY’RE MAN EATING LADYBUGS!!!—AAAAHHHHH!!!”
My daughter was frozen with fear for a couple of seconds, then she said, “NUH, UH!”. It was as much a question as it was a statement. I still had a wild look in my eyes, but the fun of the moment got the best of me as I started to grin. “THEY ARE NOT DAD!” she declared, having solved the mystery.
We laughed for five minutes straight. She took her turn reaching into the bag and repeated our new found fun. “Ahh! Man Eating Ladybugs!” An instant family classic, the kind that happen out of the blue but define part of a childhood and will be recalled forever.
Since that Sunday afternoon, I’ve never looked upon a ladybug in the same light. I always think of our “Man-Eating-Ladybugs,” and the special time we spent working together to create something more special than just the random occasion.
It seems to always require effort to “create” something of lasting importance, especially fond memories. Even if it’s just the menial tasks of responsibility coupled with the right perspective.
Looking back over my life so far, some of the best memories I have are of things that didn’t come easy, the tasks that required self-discipline and perseverance. I’ve heard it said, “In this life, for everything you get, you have to give up something.”
I recall that day and the simple ladybug memory. Whatever football game was on that day was worth giving up to gain the memories of a child and what a little thing, on a simple Sunday, would mean to her for the rest of her life. I think sometimes God is even bigger in the little things of this life.
Self-sacrifice, however, difficult at the any given time, is the cornerstone of any lasting gratification and a great way to teach a child the possibilities in even the smallest things in life.
The most treasured things gained can rarely be measured using a number. A person can spend time and energy filling their pockets with what can be measured by counting. A life spent measuring happiness by a number, will come up short every time…
I pray my daughter will remember that lesson from her childhood… And, of course, the Man Eating Ladybugs…
bill (cycleguy)
Sunday, January 14, 2018 @ 1:41 pm
I’m willing to bet if I went to her today and asked she would remember that story. Both my girls still remember special times we had, even though they may have complained at the time. Ask Janna about going cross country (over 5000 miles) in two weeks. She was a hermit except for the baseball games we went to and when she found out we were in Illinois. Ask Tami about the time we were almost to Dyersville on that same vacation when I told her the floods were going to make it impossible to get there. Yeah…good memories. I hope when I am gone they will still laugh and have stories to tell at my celebration.
Ed
Sunday, January 14, 2018 @ 1:49 pm
Spending time with our loved ones is always worth the sacrifice of other things that would normally take up our time. I just got back from two months visiting my sister and nieces in Brunswick, Georgia and was able to get away from the more daunting tasks of not sacrificing. It’s definitely a life changer.
saleslady371
Monday, January 15, 2018 @ 8:29 am
Of course she will remember. And this was a while back; I bet today you are equally as fun a grandpa as dad. This is a great story to remind me to slow down and capture the best of what’s in store today. I enjoyed it and happy you shared it for us again. I do believe we have to give up something for something greater and the way you put it, I see the spiritual meaning too.
Dikkon
Monday, January 15, 2018 @ 10:45 am
Thanks, Floyd, for this story. You tell it vividly, and I can imagine it clearly. Keep on keeping on with your daughter, and with all of us out here who like knowing about your awareness of the Lord.
Hazel Moon
Monday, January 15, 2018 @ 12:28 pm
Thanks Floyd for repeating this post. It is good to enjoy a clean joke and your daughter knew this was one of those times. I laugh with you.
Martha Orlando
Monday, January 15, 2018 @ 1:50 pm
Oh, what a marvelous story, Floyd! I’m sure your daughter will always remember this day spent with you and the man-eating ladybugs – LOL!
And I’m with you – I believe with all my heart that God reveals Himself much more completely in the small things of life than in the grandiose.
Blessings!
Cheryl
Monday, January 15, 2018 @ 11:06 pm
Aww…this is such a sweet story. I love how you took the time to be with your little one and the memories you made that day. It is so hard as they get older, and they begin to branch out on their own more, and it seems those kinds of memories are fewer and farther between. So thankful you shared this heartwarming story. I missed it before and am so glad you posted it again. God bless you, brother.
June
Tuesday, January 16, 2018 @ 12:43 pm
Great story, Floyd! I’m certain your daughter does remember that afternoon and treasures it!
Betty Draper
Thursday, January 18, 2018 @ 7:26 pm
My oldest grand daughter was a lady bug eater. When she was about one the house they lived in was crawling with lady bugs. Scarlett just picked them up from the walls, the floor and popped them into her mouth. We love to tease her about that memory and show her the pictures to prove it. It’ s a fun memory which makes a child enjoy their childhood. I am sure you daughter loves you telling this memory.