GOOD WILL
He looked like a character from a Stephen King novel. The kind of person that catches your eye and spins a tale at a glance. He was tall, walked with his shoulders at attention, a rare thing for someone of his years. His was a long slow gait, but intentions were in each strained stride.
He had a sun-soaked blue ball cap to shade his white crown as he made his way toward the Goodwill store. The violet skin splotches on his face would have made a zombie jealous and the lines in his hard face carved into leather. The prematurely aged man looked like he’d spent a lifetime standing up to an unforgiving sun and his battle appeared to be all over but the raisin’ of the white flag.
His right grey eye squinted nearly shut as he blew his cigarette smoke out the right side of his mouth, pulling his lips as far to that side and lifting his grey stubbled cheek to direct the exhaust in my direction. The old guy was tough – that was an easy call. He sported his faded tee shirt with pride over his long lean frame. “VIETNAM VETERAN” is what it said in white letters against the shirt that matched the color of his eyes.
Some people walk through life not knowing much about what’s going on around them. That wasn’t the case with the elderly vet. He was still a soldier. He studied everything around him like an eagle does an open field. He picked up his struggled pace toward the front door as he pulled his right leg forward starting up at his hip.
He flicked his cigarette butt from between his thick middle finger and thumb into the crushed granite rock planter as he passed it. His shoulders rocked from side to side and he pulled his right leg while he picked up even more speed toward the used goods store.
Even though aged, his left leg was strong – chiseled like a Roman statue, veins sprawled across his calf as it carried the brunt of the load. He had matching old tennis shoes with short white socks. The left one was skin tight around his lean ankle, the right sock flapped down like a small blanket over the top of his faded shoe loosely flanking the thin silver aluminum prosthetic leg that was supporting him.
I spotted what the eagle eye soldier had a half minute before me. She was older than him but was fit and healthy for her age. He arrived at the door a few seconds before her and wrestled the heavy glass door open for her. I saw him nod and her smile and say some sort of greeting with a genuine gleam in her eye.
I’m not sure if either one of them found what they were searching for that day, but I’m certain they both participated in an act of good will. I was just glad to be witness to the small act. You see, I’ve learned that it’s the smallest things that sometimes speak the loudest about our lives… and what we lack shouldn’t keep us from showing others the Good will we’ve been given by grace.
Jennifer Dougan
Thursday, January 23, 2014 @ 8:23 pm
What a neat gentleman, this vet was. 🙂
Have a great week, Floyd.
Jennifer Dougan
http://www.jenniferdougan.com
Floyd
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 9:16 am
Yeah, he didn’t let what he lacked keep him from who he was… A good lesson to be reminded of. Thanks, Jennifer.
Floyd
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 9:50 pm
He was a subtle reminder of who I should be in all aspects of my life… even when no one is looking. Nice job today, sister. Thanks.
Betty Draper
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 9:43 am
A man comfortable in his wrinkled skin…hey I am married to one of those kind of men. I remember a man telling me my husband had the face of a man who had lived much and he wore it well. I think brother you might be one of those men too or you would not observed this small act. It’s called an “others” kind of man. Again great story with a kind punch.
Floyd
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 9:54 pm
Ace is my kind of man. He’s the type of man that stories are made of. He doesn’t look for it but that’s who you two are… And Jared will carry the legacy to greater heights… He will tell the stories of his dad… and his mom… He will change the world… He will be the story teller God has raised him to be… even if it’s the actions of life. Bless you and your family, Betty.
Ceil
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 1:11 pm
Hi Floyd! Thank you for visiting me in my new blog home. I am still trying to figure out everything, but it’s been a good move.
Your descriptions are so vivid, I enjoyed imagining each part of this older gentleman you described. Right down to the sock that covered his shoe like a blanket. You have a way with words.
I think this man has taught me that outward appearances mean less than nothing. I need to be open to everyone’s heart. We are what we do, not what we look like. He is a true gentleman in every sense of the word.
Good to see you today!
Ceil
Floyd
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 9:57 pm
Awe, Ceil. You just summarized that better than I could have pondered. “Outward appearances mean less than nothing.” That, my friend, speaks volumes. Bless you and your ministry. Thanks, sister.
Caleb Suko
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 2:58 pm
Sometimes I feel that because we (or maybe it’s just me) are looking for something bigger and better that we often miss these small moments. It also seems to me that people who do amazing great things for God didn’t start with that one big thing they started with being faithful in a thousand small things first.
Floyd
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 10:00 pm
Wow. Amen, Caleb. You and Ceil have taken the subject to the deeper meaning that I was struggling to find. It is the smallest of acts from the heart that show who we are… and they build to change the world from our Father’s will. Well said, Caleb. You preachers have a way of expressing the truth!
Loren Pinilis
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 3:20 pm
One of the things I love about living in the south – just the common courtesy to hold doors (and say thank you to others who held the door for you).
Floyd
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 10:07 pm
The smallest of things mean so much. We try to complicate life and make it seem difficult, but it’s only us, showing honor and humility that was passed down by our Savior. Simple is good, Loren. Really good. Thank you, sir for reminding me.
Lynn Morrissey
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 6:35 pm
Honestly, Floyd, your storytelling ability keeps getting better and better–vivid descriptions, interesting characters, your empathy and compassion, spiritual points, and surprise endings. You need to publish this beyond your blog. Thanks for an unforgettable scene and a lesson in chivalry.
Fondly
Lynn
Floyd
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 10:12 pm
My sister… Your intellect and proper allow you to see thing that most people miss in life. God has blessed you with Michael to be the hand of God, Sheridan to be the heart of His chosen. You get it and pass it on with pleasure. You are one in a million… I guess more than that now, but whatever the number, you are cherished by all who cross your path. Bless you and yours, Lynn.
Pam
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 8:40 pm
I agree with Lynn–your writing is truly exceptional. I could see this whole seen in my minds eye. I love moments like these. Thanks for sharing it with us, Floyd.
Floyd
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 10:16 pm
Hi, Pam. You can see it because in my estimation you live it. We look for what the lost eye can’t perceive. We are blessed. Fellowship from miles beyond comprehension? Yes, we are blessed. I’m praying for your husband, he is not him without you. Thanks, Pam.
June
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 8:53 pm
Those last couple of lines really pack a punch, Floyd. And that last one – “and what we lack shouldn’t keep us from showing others the Good will we’ve been given by grace.” – really made me think. It’s so true. I think many of us, who are deceived into believing we are lacking (whether we are or not), let the lies we believe keep us from giving to others – keep us from giving truly and fully of ourselves. Yet the man you witnessed probably doesn’t consider himself lacking in any way at all. And he’s right. His actions proved it. Thanks for sharing your experience so profoundly. Have a blessed weekend!
Floyd
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 10:19 pm
Oh, man. You wrapped that up so eloquently. You’re right, we get so caught up in “doing right” that we forget that works mean noting without the heart of the One who saved us. Blessings to you and yours as well, sister. Thank you.
Hazel Moon
Friday, January 24, 2014 @ 11:21 pm
The gentleman walked with pride, even if he was going to visit the Good-will store, he was ready to open doors for a lady. My guess was he had been a Marine and could hold his head high. I haven’t been to a Good-will store for a long time, but the other day browsing the internet for used books, I noticed the “Goodwillbooks.com” They offer books donated to the Good Will, many which are rare and out of print. They continue to pass on the good will to others. Look for this post next week at “Tell me a Story.”
Floyd
Saturday, January 25, 2014 @ 10:07 am
He did carry himself like a Marine. I was in that Goodwill store with my daughter not to far back looking for a costume that she used in the school play. I also once got a suit and shoes at a used clothing store… I still have them and wear the shoes now and then. I love old books too, Hazel – a trait passed on to me by my mom. I’ll be looking forward to your next week blog hop! Thanks, Hazel.
Betty Jo
Saturday, January 25, 2014 @ 5:25 am
Floyd your description is so good it made me feel like I was right there watching the Good unfold before my own eyes. You have a wonderful eye for detail, and ability to describe humanity in such vivid color. As one who lost several friends in the Vietnam war, and two relatives injured, this really touched me, and brought tears. I’m praying right now as I type; blessings for this Vet.
Floyd
Saturday, January 25, 2014 @ 10:11 am
I have a soft spot for vets as well. I have many cousins that served, one has issues now form agent orange and the other still has shrapnel in his heel from a land mine that sent him to a MASH unit a week before his whole platoon was killed. It was good to see the man not let what he lacked keep him from doing what demonstrated who he was. A lesson there for me for sure. Thanks, Betty Jo.
Bill (cycelguy)
Saturday, January 25, 2014 @ 7:06 am
It’s the smallest things that speak volumes. We often lose sight of that Floyd and look for the large. pastors want large churches then they are successful (speaking from experience). When will we learn God only wants our best-large or small?
Floyd
Saturday, January 25, 2014 @ 10:15 am
“Our best – large or small.” Well said, Bill. Funny how most humans want to hit the home run, skip all the rungs on the ladder, build a mansion, yet don’t start with a foundation. “Who can be trusted with little can be trusted with much.” It is the small things that demonstrate who we are. I marvel when we leave church, driving is the biggest insight into a person I think, and we watch people come from worshipping and hearing the word of God and go out and cut people off or won’t yield an inch… Heart breaking really. I’m with you, Bill. Good call. Thanks.
Voni
Saturday, January 25, 2014 @ 4:32 pm
Who he was did not change because is his physical disability or age. Special reminder.
Floyd
Saturday, January 25, 2014 @ 4:40 pm
Exactly. It was a good reminder for me. Thanks, Voni.
Barb Raveling
Sunday, January 26, 2014 @ 7:34 am
I love your descriptions, Floyd. I felt like I could see this man. One of the things I’m working on this year is just being thankful, enjoying every moment and being thankful for the ordinariness of life, rather than always wanting it to be more excitement. What you described is one of those small moments to be thankful for.
Floyd
Sunday, January 26, 2014 @ 8:41 am
I’m in the same boat, Barb. I’m seeking to try to enjoy the true riches of this life that are rarely ever measured by a number. Funny, I’m slowly beginning to see that it was the design of our Father to make the best things in life incalculable. Thanks, Barb.
donna
Sunday, January 26, 2014 @ 11:41 am
I agree with you….it’s the smallest things that speak the loudest in our lives. To the human eye, they can often go unnoticed in this world for long periods of time. God in His perfect timing brings them to the forefront. How delightful that He chose a writer and storyteller such as yourself to bear witness allowing each of us to partake in a valuable lesson. Goodwill….may it always be contagious !! Have a blessed day.
Floyd
Monday, January 27, 2014 @ 10:04 am
Thanks, Donna. I think it’s good for us to remind one another of what truly matters in life. We tend to get sidetracked so easily. Me for sure.
Dan Black
Sunday, January 26, 2014 @ 7:11 pm
I’ve learned a small act of good will or kindness can go a long way. Great post!
Floyd
Monday, January 27, 2014 @ 10:12 am
It does so much for all parties involved. It seems to help refocus on the little things that matter the most. Thanks, Dan.
Bernard
Monday, January 27, 2014 @ 8:50 am
Great post. You never know what someone is dealing with and a your small act of kindness can help brighten their day. Floyd, you have a gift of using words to paint the picture as if I was experiencing the event personally.
Floyd
Monday, January 27, 2014 @ 10:33 am
Thanks, Bernard. It is the small things that can often mean and do so much. People like us have experienced that type of story I think. We pay more attention to details than others, I think that’s why it is easy for you to relate to.
child of God
Monday, January 27, 2014 @ 2:58 pm
Hi Floyd,
I really enjoyed all the detail you put into this post. A great reminder to look for opportunities to bless others.
Smiles.
Floyd
Monday, January 27, 2014 @ 8:28 pm
When we pay attention we get more than we bargained for from others. May we see the world through our Father’s eyes. Thanks, sister.
Joanne Norton
Tuesday, January 28, 2014 @ 7:13 pm
So much of this so BASED in reality. I’ve seen so many members of war that acted just like that. And what you said: I’ve learned that it’s the smallest things that sometimes speak the loudest about our lives… THIS is another form of reality to me, too. We rarely know what’s going to be on our eternal plate, and how to great and teach and bless those around us.
The man you described reminded me of pieces of my dad, others around and about, war after war. You grabbed me again, Bro.
Floyd
Wednesday, January 29, 2014 @ 10:26 am
Thanks, sister. It is the small acts that mean the most sometimes, your ministry speaks exactly to that point. Bless you and yours, Joanne.
Joanne Norton
Wednesday, January 29, 2014 @ 2:41 pm
Thanks. You are appreciated, BIG TIME!
Floyd
Thursday, January 30, 2014 @ 9:52 am
It is my pleasure and honor to point out the obvious things in life. I know you don’t do what you do for recognition, that’s what makes your heart pure. Thanks for the example you set, Joanne.
Keith Walker
Wednesday, January 29, 2014 @ 12:33 pm
“He studied everything around him like an eagle does an open field.” This guy is getting good, folks.
Floyd
Thursday, January 30, 2014 @ 9:51 am
Gotta love the way you dissect things, my friend! Thanks, Keith.
Sylvia R
Tuesday, February 4, 2014 @ 4:39 am
Vivid writing. I was there, with the smoke blowing in my face, yet seeing it all so clearly. And bottom line wisdom for me to take with me and remember daily: “What we lack shouldn’t keep us from showing others the Good will we’ve been given by grace.” Thank you for it, Floyd.
Floyd
Tuesday, February 4, 2014 @ 12:42 pm
I think we do well to remind one another of our calling, as you’ve done today at your place, Sylvia. What we lack is nothing compared to what we have in Him. Thanks, Sylvia. God bless, sister.