DAYDREAMER
I’d pass the red, white, and blue striped basketball against the house even though my mom and dad told me not to. The house was a frame house and when I’d use it to emulate a pass back to me, it would jar the inside of the house. There were blackish, grey dots all over the wall where I continued to disobey my parents.
I couldn’t help it, I needed a pass to win the make believe basketball game at the buzzer for my team to win. I’d double as not only the star of the game but the announcer as well… I was talented like that… Like every other fourth grader in the world.
I’d toss the patriotic ball hard against the less than solid wall, as the ball was coming back to me, I was transformed. I was suddenly in the Los Angeles Forum, surrounded by thousands and thousands of fans, “Jerry West,” which I miraculously became, “Gets a pass from Chamberlin,” (truly make believe)! “Drives the lane… shoots… It’s good!!!!” – “The Lakers win!!!” HHHHHAAAAAAAA, “The crowd goes wild!!!”
I’d stand about five feet out from the eave of our house and wait for the basketball to roll back down… I was told not to do that too. The basketball was knocking the little asphalted rocks off the roof, leaving little black dots all over the white color coat of the old hot mopped roof.
I’d kick the little rocks off the driveway to try and hide my disobedience, but I wasn’t fooling anyone. My parents knew it, they knew I was dying for a basketball hoop, but it was a rental house and it wasn’t allowed.
I’d run and dribble that ball that I loved up and down that driveway nonstop, pretending to be someone I wasn’t, dreaming of the day I might be as good as my heroes. That day never came… but while I ponder the innocence of youth and appreciate the childhood I had, I cherish the dreams of my youth.
Sure, the dreaming mixed with a lack of wisdom led me down some pretty empty paths, but the process of dreaming, planning, and working toward those dreams I still thoroughly enjoy. I can’t recall the number of times I was called, “a daydreamer,” by my teachers while in school and always with a negative connotation, I was either too dense or too stubborn to be able to change.
God makes each of us unique, special, specific to our calling and gifts. To see things that can or will become reality is prophecy. I’m not saying I’m a prophet, but all of us have dreamed, desired, or had a passion to do something that has become a reality. That dream and the work, along with the perseverance to endure is a gift all unto itself.
I try to make it a point to live my life and beseech the next generation to not only dream, but dream big.
God loves a daydreamer…
Diane
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 3:36 am
We adore little children as they play. Their “make believe” and imaginations are precious to us. Then they enter school. Stop the imagining! Stop the daydreaming!
God gave us creative imaginations. He expects us to use them. However, because so many of us weren’t allowed to “play” as our imaginations dictated, as adults we now have trouble using our imaginations. In Gen. 11:6 shows us how powerful and creative our imaginations are. And that is a shame.
I love to teach on this subject! Great post once again, Floyd! Thank you!
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 10:33 am
Thanks Diane. How true! What we love in children we try to tame in them, and truthfully the daydreamers are a little harder to manage. God made all of us a certain way, it’s just easier to relate to the ones like us… I need to work on that myself…
Joseph Micca
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 3:38 am
The days youth are full of the wonders of daydreaming. It is a shame that sometimes the word ‘daydreamer’ has a less than stellar conotation.
Great post Floyd, keep the dreams alive!
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 10:35 am
Thanks Joe. The dreams can’t be subdued… They have been alive in us since the beginning… it’s a gift to look back and see it in others lives like yours. It’s been a long time my old friend!
bill (cycleguy)
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 5:24 am
I played those same kinds of games. Early on it was baseball and then basketball. Only I NEVER disobeyed my parents. I just learned to lie a lot. LOL I tend to be a daydreamer and a dreamer still. Not as much though since age has brought reality. But I still dream about what can be (and try to stay away from what could have been)
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 10:37 am
I think it’s great to be a dreamer. Your church is one of those dreams that God turns into reality. It just doesn’t get any better than that! The could have beens are dream stealers… Thanks Bill! I knew you’d be able to relate to this one!
Lanny Wegleitner
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 9:18 am
Floyd,
My dream that became a reality was to have custody of my son’s before they hit manhood. It was achieved with both my son’s and my persistance with the court system. I now have four grandsons and the twins will be 1 year old next week. I remember you visiting me and my family many years ago wishing you could have a family life like I had. My friend, you have met many of your goals in life, so don’t ever stop dreaming.
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 10:39 am
Thanks Lanny. You’re persistence and perseverance was inspiring. Still is. I learned a lot about the heart of a dad with small children because of you. Thanks for your heart and the encouraging words. Same to you old friend.
Betty Draper
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 9:24 am
Daydreaming is one of my hobbies and it’s free which makes it more appealing. I did a lot of day dreaming as a child, it was an escape for me then. I think my dreams as a teenager to have a happy home like the Father Knows Best caused me to get married at 17. Reality caused me to work on our marriage and after 48 years I can testify work pays off better then dreaming. I still day dream but with structure to them now. I can lay them aside and get on to the task of what my day brings. Good post Brother…think I will go take a walk and day dream of our family get together next year. This daydream will come true Lord willing. By the way I walk on a street called “Hope” on purpose. Blessings
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 10:43 am
Your words have a way of warming my heart Betty! Such wisdom and love of the Father in your life and words. I can actually see myself taking a stroll with you on “Hope” Street. If it doesn’t happen on this side of heaven, I know it will on the other… We’ll share our daydreams, we’ll smile and laugh together. We’ll even reminisce a bit about the old days…
Thank you so much Betty.
Ngina Otiende
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 9:34 pm
48 year Betty..wow! I thank God it all begins with a dream but does not end there. Amen to the dreams and hard work too. I know that hard work will get my husband and i to that mark. (we are celebrating our fifth anniversary next month):)
Dan Black
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 11:38 am
This is a great statement, “God makes each of us unique, special, specific to our calling and gifts.” I think so many people stop dreaming once they enter into adulthood and all of the responsibility that entails. It’s so important to dream and dream big as adults. Great reminder.
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 12:57 pm
I agree Dan. It’s so easy to let the toughness of this life choke out the magic of it from God. Thanks.
Jason Stasyszen
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 11:58 am
I totally agree, Floyd. We are told that at a certain age or maturity that we have to stop dreaming, but it’s bull. Like you said, the reasons most give is that some of our dreaming led down empty paths, but that doesn’t make dreaming bad. When we dream with our Father, it’s a beautiful thing. It releases compassion, healing, wholeness, provision, and a whole host of benefits to the world. That’s our calling and responsibility! I’ll daydream with you and then I’m going to wake up and do what He’s given me grace to do, work while it’s still day. Thanks Floyd. I’m all kinds of stirred up now. š
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 12:59 pm
Thanks Jason! You nailed it! It is beneficial to the world on God’s behalf. “Work while it’s still day.” That is great! Gotta remember that one!
Jason Stasyszen
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 3:19 pm
Well, I stole it from Jesus, but I don’t think He minds too much. š
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 4:18 pm
Must be something from Psalm or Proverbs, but I don’t recognize the translation?
Jason Stasyszen
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 4:35 pm
It’s John 9:4. Jesus said, “We must work the works of Him who sent Me as long as it is day; night is coming when no one can work.”
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 5:52 pm
I always focused on the part of the verse where Jesus said, “I am the light of the world.” Thanks for sharing Jason. That’s really cool!
Jay Cookingham
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 12:34 pm
Keep dreaming up great post like this bro’ and I’ll let ya bang a basketball off my house!
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 1:00 pm
I’ll take you up on it Jay! There is something still magical about a simple ball, catching it by whatever means available… I’ll be over Sunday! Thanks Jay!
Hazel Moon
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 6:21 pm
I read this post to my husband and we both enjoyed this one. He could relate to you throwing the ball on the roof and at the side of the house. We do need to day dream and use our imagination. There is power in prayer as we imagine what God can and will do. As a child I was often alone, but my imagination served me well to be satisfied with my aloneness. I was never lonely God sent angels to watch over my play.
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 6:43 pm
Tell Robert I said hello! The gift to imagine and see things is so taken for granted. It has literally changed the world, albeit not always for the better… But it does when we imagine as you wrote in Him. Thanks Hazel!
Mike
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 6:34 pm
It’s funny that when I was a child in school I was a C, D & F student. Everyone of my report cards said he has so much potential, but he doesn’t apply himself, and he doesn’t pay attention. The teachers all liked me, but I was always somewhere else. I was a daydreamer. I’m still a daydreamer, but I don’t have to worry about report cards anymore. I’m glad God loves daydreamers. š
Floyd
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 6:45 pm
We are most definitely two peas in a pod Mike! That sounds like the story of my life too! I just couldn’t get focused unless it was hands on. Your lack of concentration hasn’t hurt you a bit! Your posts are solid and persuasive, that lack of concentration when we need it is long gone! Thanks Mike.
Voni
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 8:41 pm
I’ve read that fairy tales are important to the development of children because they prepare the young ones to believe in things they can’t see, something that helps when they are ready to believe in God. Perhaps our childhood dreams prepare us for the bigger and better plans He has for us as adults.
Floyd
Saturday, August 4, 2012 @ 8:57 am
I’ve never heard that about children, but it sounds practical. I believe for sure our dreaming is a gift by God, the only issue is if we use them to honor Him or ourselves? Isn’t that the core issue of our world? Thanks for making me thing this morning Voni!
Ngina Otiende
Friday, August 3, 2012 @ 9:26 pm
i know I am reading this post a day or two late..but it’s exactly what I needed to hear, right this moment. Thank God for a word in season :).
I love this statement;
“To see things that can or will become reality is prophecy. Iām not saying Iām a prophet, but all of us have dreamed, desired, or had a passion to do something that has become a reality. That dream and the work, along with the perseverance to endure is a gift all unto itself.”
I would love to share these great thought on my facebook and twitter, if you would allow me š
Floyd
Saturday, August 4, 2012 @ 9:01 am
Thanks Ngina, glad these words can lift you up today! I’d be honored if you’d share it on your social sites as well.
I gotta figure out that twitter thing… I struggle not to be a dinosaur! You’ve encouraged me to that end. Thanks. If you get this share with me how to follow your twitter please, or email me.
Ngina Otiende
Saturday, August 4, 2012 @ 9:47 am
Dinosaur….? Twitter will help you out with that hahaha.
You just need to set up a twitter account in your name (twitter.com has some simple instructions on how to do that). Then search for me – my twitter name is nginaotiende. Optionally, you can just click the twitter button on my site to begin to follow me. Then i will follow you back. Twitter.com has instructions on how the social network works.
It will be great to have you on twitter! After you sign up, maybe you can mention that in a post so that we can all know and follow you?
Thanks for allowing me to share. Blessings!
Floyd
Saturday, August 4, 2012 @ 10:13 am
Okay, I was thinking it was only a mobile phone thing? Okay, today is the day! Thanks Ngina!
Ngina Otiende
Saturday, August 4, 2012 @ 10:21 am
You will definitely access and use it more through your mobile phone, like most people.
I just think that it might be easier to set up the account in a computer for the better experience. (I find mobile versions to websites abit limiting)
All the best!
Floyd
Saturday, August 4, 2012 @ 12:22 pm
Got it. And I’m officially following you now! Thanks for the push and help.
Chuck Allen
Sunday, August 5, 2012 @ 6:39 pm
I’m so glad that God loves daydreamers!
Thanks, Floyd, I needed to hear that.
(And BTW, I had no idea you had such great taste in basketball teams – Go Lakers!) š
Floyd
Sunday, August 5, 2012 @ 6:56 pm
Thanks Chuck! All of us daydreamers need a little good news every now and then!
Audra Krell
Monday, August 6, 2012 @ 11:23 am
You are a prophet and a man who dares to dream, a man of God! We have black circles from the basketball all over our garage and we own a hoop. There is just something about getting that game winning pass!
I too agree with the commenter above, you need to get on twitter so we have easier access for sharing your great writing. Its easy peasy.
Floyd
Monday, August 6, 2012 @ 5:17 pm
Thanks Audra! Your words are always so kind and uplifting. You’re right, there’s nothing quite like that perfect assist to win the make believe game!
Oh, and by the way, I’m on twitter now! I’ve got to get around and follow others, I just haven’t got around to it yet. But it’s official: I am no longer a dinosaur!
Lolita Valle
Saturday, August 11, 2012 @ 12:28 am
This is one of the reasons why Diane loves a fellow-man blogger. It is good to hear how boys think, even way back childhood days.
I know how you dream of games like basketball and it is always a sight to see you guys, aiming for a shot. I see them in your role play and I do think it is good, dreams, going for it, practice and all. It makes the man, perfect the abilities, go for goals. In season, they equip.
God is the author of dreams and visions, He puts them in our heart, it is up to us how to go about them.
Thanks that God loves dreamers, even daydreamers. And thank you for giving us glimpses of your days of hoops and loops.
Floyd
Saturday, August 11, 2012 @ 7:13 am
Thanks Lolita. Your words are to the point and very wise, “God is the author of dreams and visions, He puts them in our heart, it is up to us how to go about them.” The good desires He sets within us is truly an honor to our Father. He must smile in gratification when he sees us dreaming and daydreaming about the places He’s prepared for us in our future… Great thoughts.