CAMPING
I woke up to a beautiful white blanket of snow on the ground, it was stunning. It looked like a perfect Christmas morning. Because of where I grew up I rarely got to see snow, much less wake up to the magic of it.
The power of God to change the look of our world while we are sleeping to awake to a new world, a different world, to say the least, was exhilarating.
The problem with this day of God’s magical hand was that it wasn’t Christmas and I was sleeping outside on a job site. To wake up to snow when you’re sleeping in it, is much different when you gaze upon it from the warm shelter of a home.
It was 1981, Midland Texas. Our country was in a tough economic recession. There weren’t many jobs available anywhere, so us, the unemployed went wherever we had to for employment opportunity.
I worked in three states in less than one year in order to survive. Circumstances that we live through certainly have a bearing on our perspective.
When I was a boy I loved to go camping. We didn’t do too much of it, but when we did I truly enjoyed it. What kid doesn’t? My parents had a big tent that the six of us could sleep in. I remember in detail the smell and feel of the brisk mountain air as my mom fried bacon in a skillet over the open campfire.
My perspective as a child was if or when you could sleep outside and be camping, life would be perfect! As an adult, I’m not a big camper. Having been forced by the financial reality of life to sleep outside with camping as a necessity for survival, put a new perspective on how I enjoyed “the great outdoors.”
Sleeping outside, showering 2 or 3 times a week at the YMCA at a buck a pop is somewhat of an adventure. The perspective is usually determined by circumstances. Do we have a choice or is it a necessity?
Many people in our country are making difficult choices due to our present economic meltdown. The choices we make now will help shape our future perspectives.
I guess in 1981 I had a choice. I could have stayed at home and tried to get a government handout. Maybe I could have begged on a corner. I didn’t think I had a choice. At the time, I never considered anything except trying and never giving up.
I’m not saying I’m exceptional for having done so. It is what was expected of me from my family and my country, the way I viewed it at the time.
My wife and I have friends that have had to move across the country to find a way to survive. A husband of one of the couples has been working out of town for over a year. He just got relocated to California. This time it is for a promotion. If he never had to navigate the tough times he would never have reached a goal he’s dreamed about since I’ve known him.
My wife’s other friend sent pictures of the ocean in Connecticut that she now lives four blocks from. She told my wife she can’t remember being this happy in years. This couple had lost a business here, and yet now she’s happier than she’s been in years.
I don’t know of anyone who hasn’t had adversity in their life. I’m convinced that the ones who fight through on their own or by the grace of God and don’t give in or give up, are the ones who receive the most blessings.
Maybe not riches, but something of more value than silver or gold.
They earn what money can’t buy or what anyone can give, not even at Christmas… Self-respect.
I think I’ll go camping again… This time I’ll be taking a tent… and bacon.
April
Friday, December 17, 2010 @ 10:06 pm
As always, this is a fantastic blog. I wish more people would consider the pride of working and the self respect that comes from it instead of taking hand outs.
As for camping, I tried it, I won’t be going again without electricity!
floyd
Saturday, December 18, 2010 @ 3:55 pm
Thanks April, your input is always appreciated.
Bt
Saturday, December 18, 2010 @ 7:43 am
In 1981 you figured out that you had more power over the happiness in your life than most people realize. Government handouts, begging on the corner would not make you happy so YOU did what YOU had to do to survive. More people need to understand (as your freind in CT) that everyone one of us has control over our own happiness. To many people today are afraind to trust in their own potential!
floyd
Saturday, December 18, 2010 @ 3:56 pm
Well said my friend, and who’s going to argue with an ex-linebacker from Nebraska?
Lauren Wheeler
Saturday, December 18, 2010 @ 1:00 pm
Wow Floyd…I had no idea you went through some of those situations you explained in 1981. That makes me respect you that much more! It makes me respect you because you WORKED hard to get what you want. Like you said, you probably could have gotten “help” from the government, but I respect that you went out and worked, and made it happen. You kept going until you got there, and nothing was going to stop you. I feel as if people abuse the system we have with our government, and it personally makes me very upset, especially for those who work very hard to get where they are…and sometimes get punished for the smart choices they have made. I agree with Bt, too many people are afraid to trust in their own potential. Too many people live life expecting something great, but do nothing to get there. They are afraid to stand out and be different because they are afraid of failing. I look at people like you, and Chris Gardner (the guy the Pursuit of Happiness is about), who have made it, and notice one trait that you have in common. You never gave up. You started with the end in mind, like you taught us, and didn’t stop until you made that dream a reality. I respect you so much Floyd, and thank you for teaching me what you have! =) Happy holidays!
floyd
Saturday, December 18, 2010 @ 4:01 pm
Thanks Lauren, it’s great to hear from you! You I don’t worry about because I personally know what you’re made of. I’m also honored to have shared so much valuable time together. I’m looking forward to seeing you soon!
Sophie
Sunday, December 19, 2010 @ 5:40 pm
Hi Floyd I am sophie one of brooke’s friends i thought your story was very inspirational and i know im going to be coming on this website a lot more you are very talented writer i hope you have a great time writing more!
floyd
Sunday, December 19, 2010 @ 6:16 pm
Thank you Sophie. Any friend of Brooke’s is a friend of mine. Glad your here!
Pat Bowling
Wednesday, December 22, 2010 @ 9:39 pm
I, too hear a great work ethic (which is rare these days), self respect (also on the decline) and self discipline (ditto)…but the one word that is towering above all the rest to me is FAITH. You come across as a man of faith, Floyd. It takes great faith to perservere through times of adversity; to not give up; to press on.
(Your blog should have been an published as an editorial. It is a message that needs to be heard.)
floyd
Friday, December 24, 2010 @ 8:03 am
Thanks, isn’t it interesting the things we try to avoid in life sometimes turn out to be the things that do the most good for us in the long run?