A DESK DISASTER!
I read a very thought provoking post last week by Jake over at verymuchlater.com about his messy desk. He went on to use the clutter on his desk and specifically his dead camera that he hadn’t tossed out as an analogy of our lives.
I considered my desk that looks like someone tossed a grenade on and decided I’d like to write about the same subject. Jake gave me the thumbs up to use his post as my inspiration. By the way, I’d highly recommend a visit to Jake’s site, first a heads up. It’s great reading, but there is no candy coating over at verymuchlater.com, Jake calls it like it is.
I had to take a few moments to figure out how my desk got to be such a disaster. The rest of my home office looks fine, my wife even dusted it for me last week, but the desk? No one would know where to start, including me.
I realize my desk is like many things in life that become a little messy and out of sorts. It starts with being a little lax or maybe just plain lazy and so begins the pattern. The same pattern my youngest falls into with her room, the difference is we punish her for the example we’ve set in some cases.
It’s a good thing my office isn’t part of a glass house the way I’ve been tossing stones around lately.
The desk disaster started with some research papers I had compiled for a manuscript I was working on but have now scrapped. I didn’t want to throw them away, I might pick the writing back up, then I’ll need that information for sure. I don’t really have a perfect place to store something like an unfinished manuscript and the piles of research papers to go with it, but I do have a place…
The rejection letters I’ve received from literary agents I kept where they could be seen in a neat stack that somehow seemed to grow with all kinds of papers. Now I have to assume those rejection notices that I use for inspiration are still under there somewhere.
My Bible study materials I sort of figured was like making a bed, I’m gonna be using them soon so why go to the bother of putting them back on the shelf when I’m gonna be taking them back down?
That’s how the snowball started, it picked up momentum along the way and now seems like an unstoppable monster. I can’t clean it up, I don’t have the time or know where to start!
Maybe some of you reading have an area of your life like that as well? My office represents the lives of many people I think. We’re pretty disciplined and have almost everything in our lives together, except for that one thing. The whole life or office looks perfect, but somewhere in that life or office we find that weakness, a desk disaster.
Most times the weakness is spawned in our flesh and the lack of discipline or human laziness keeps us from doing the right thing; Reaching toward God for His strength for discipline in our lives.
It’s easy to spot other people’s desk disasters in our lives, they aren’t the same ones we have so we can’t relate to them in some cases. Sometimes you can hear people talk about others perceived weaknesses, other times the voices doing a fair amount of the judging comes from inside us.
“Look at Sam Wafar, he’s everywhere, and sooooo greedy”! “Did you see what Susie Que was wearing –she’s got some issues to be dressing like that”! “How about Floyd’s desk, it looks like his clothes”! Then there are the other messes or sometimes disasters that are unseen.
Like most weaknesses, the pattern starts with one action, one act lacking self-discipline. It’s human nature. One person can drop a piece of trash in a field and before long it looks like a dump.
The solution to the problem will take an enormous amount more discipline to clean up than it would have taken to do the right thing the first time. God gives us the opportunity to clean up our lives and especially the extra messy parts no one else can see.
The clean up process starts just in reverse of how the mess got there in the first place, one piece at a time…
My guess is that we all have something that needs a good spring cleaning, even if it is Winter…
Tammy
Tuesday, February 8, 2011 @ 8:00 pm
Thanks for the reminder to not judge others and their lives…but rather take a look at my own and let God work on ME. 🙂
Gonna go check out the blog you linked to. 🙂
Floyd
Tuesday, February 8, 2011 @ 8:43 pm
You know, I don’t think I could have put it any better than you just did in a few words…DOHHH! I guess we all need to look at ourselves first. It kinda keeps things in a better Biblical perspective. Your gonna love Jake’s post it is very real, like you and your post, you’ll be next on my “hit” list! Thanks Tammy
Tammy
Tuesday, February 8, 2011 @ 8:46 pm
lol floyd!
I did enjoy it–he’s got a great sense of humor and he’s spunky–I like spunky!
PS–I cannot figure out how to make it so that when someone comments after I comment, I get an email letting me know about it–help!
Floyd
Tuesday, February 8, 2011 @ 8:59 pm
I could be the worst person in the world to ask about anything computer. This wordpress that I’m on does it automatically, but then again I didn’t set it up. I don’t even know how to add a picture or add a column where I can add my favorite blogs which would include yours, Jakes, and April’s from http://amblessedbeyondmeasure.wordpress.com/ you should check hers out too. She is passionate just like you and Jake. I got a call into Joe, the guy who is the brains behind everything, when he contacts me I’ll ask him about your little situation.
Tammy
Tuesday, February 8, 2011 @ 9:21 pm
Awesome, thanks!
Heading over to check April’s blog out, too! 🙂
Floyd
Tuesday, February 8, 2011 @ 10:11 pm
If you get this first tell her I said hi, if you get it after ward tell her then, you’ll hit it off famously.
jake
Tuesday, February 8, 2011 @ 11:39 pm
Floyd, I love it! I need to be reminded to not judge…. every five minutes? I’m kind of exaggerating. I wish I was just lying when I typed that. It’s one of the harder things in my life, but I grew up with parents that told me to get my crap together at a young age, so now I tell other people to get THEIR crap together 😉 I’m still kind of exaggerating. I put a post together for this, I think I’m planning on publishing the link tomorrow around lunch- I’ll email you 🙂 Good job, friend!!
And also, thanks for the generous words- I’m learning this writing thing along with the rest of the blogosphere!
Floyd
Wednesday, February 9, 2011 @ 7:04 am
Your welcome, it is my pleasure. We’re all guilty of mostly the same stuff. It’s that first small lack of discipline that grows like a cancer and pretty soon we have an all out war on our hands. Then comes the realization that we turned away from God for a moment and Presto!
jake
Wednesday, February 9, 2011 @ 8:41 am
You’re right, it only takes a moment to get things back in order… Well, a moment with God, anyway…
Lainey
Wednesday, February 9, 2011 @ 5:38 am
Floyd:
I have two words for you – FILE FOLDERS!
Lainey
Floyd
Wednesday, February 9, 2011 @ 7:06 am
Well then I have one word for you! OUCH! I know, thanks for the tough love, someone’s got to say it, it might as well be you! Thanks
jake
Wednesday, February 9, 2011 @ 10:50 pm
Floyd, Sorry this didn’t happen earlier, but the post is up. I tried to schedule it… but clearly misunderstood that process!
Floyd
Thursday, February 10, 2011 @ 6:59 am
No problem, everything works out how it should. I appreciate your support and help. If there is anything I can do for you let me know. Thanks Jake
April
Thursday, February 10, 2011 @ 7:14 am
Floyd…as always that was a fantastic post! Your analogy between a messy desk and messy parts of our lives was spot on. And you’re right, there comes a time when it’s easy to see that something is messy in someone’s life by something outward that starts showing.
PS – thanks for the plug! I look forward to new readers!
Floyd
Thursday, February 10, 2011 @ 9:59 am
Yeah I’m with you, I’m finding it a little more difficult these days to see everyone else’s issues because of this big ole’ log that’s stuck in my eye! The plug is my honor, passionate voices like your’s need to be heard.
katdish
Thursday, February 10, 2011 @ 7:28 am
Hey there Floyd. I’ve seen you over at Jake’s place a time or two. I think the messy desk analogy is a good one. One of the best pieces of organizational advice I’ve ever heard is this: Decide if you’re a filer or a piler. Now, me? I’m a piler, which I’m sure would drive a filer crazy. But we have to find out what works best for ourselves and not judge how others try to manage their stuff. We all strive to do better, to be better. What works for one person may not work for another and that’s okay.
Floyd
Thursday, February 10, 2011 @ 10:05 am
Thanks for dropping in, your reputation precedes you and I’m honored by your visit. I guess it’s obvious that you and I fall under that same category of “pilers” by the picture of my desk. I’m not sure I’d say my system is working, I gonna have to give it a few tweaks, Jimmy Hoffa could very well be under that pile on my desk!
Holly
Saturday, February 12, 2011 @ 10:11 am
Hello Floyd,
I think this says it well, “Most times the weakness is spawned in our flesh and the lack of discipline or human laziness keeps us from doing the right thing; Reaching toward God for His strength for discipline in our lives.”
I ‘ve been working on this myself…..so far so good….I’ll keep trying to discipline my thoughts and desires, and asking for Gods grace.
Floyd
Saturday, February 12, 2011 @ 3:33 pm
That sounds like a good plan, you’ve inspired me to do the same, grace is all we need. It is great to hear from you! God bless you and yours.